Vacation

Please read and give me your thoughts, I'l answer your questions if you want?
Big story so I will try to make it short. I met this girl in November, she had bad rep in my school but I didn't care because she didn't seem like the type of person everyone called her. We became good friends and started texting everyday for bout 3 weeks. She would text me in the middle of the night sometimes calling me perfect and stuff like I love you, your the best, etc. We became close and suddenly all my friends knew. I thought she liked me until she told me of this other guy she liked, I became heartbroken when she told me. I fake smiled and was happy for her. She went on vacation and we texted everyday she was their, she had to be in her room or the bathroom so it was usually in the afternoon. When she came back I gave her the Christmas gift i bought her, when she opened it she screamed and gave me a big hug around the exit. She told me that she didn't like the guy anymore because of something she asked. I saw hope but it was soon destroyed when she got drunk and revealed that she still loved her ex and missed him. Well her friends were bad at keeping secrets I guess because the guy soon found out. He felt the same way to, they aren't technically a couple but she is only focused on him now. We stopped texting since then, she usually calls me on Skype now or I call her. We talk everyday and she brings up her ex at least once a week. I have talked to the guy, and well supposedly he wanted to beat me up for being so close to E (the girl I like). Though he never told me this (E told me) it did explain some things. The first time we talked he gave me like a really big (like 1 1/2 pages) story of him and E. I guess he was trying to show me that E is his and for me to back off nicely (not sure though). We have been video chatting on Skype everyday since then. Sometimes we have nothing to talk about and just send each other some links. Though we usually laugh a lot and sometimes we will just look at each other and smile and laugh for no reason. She teases me a lot like saying "u wanna see my bra?" I would just blush and look down and she would laugh at me. She invited me to go to the movies in 2 weeks I didn't give her an actual answer but I'l probably bring it up soon. She doesn't really like my sister or brother only my mom. Sorry if its a big long, I tried making it as short as possible. What are your thoughts? I have a feeling that she doesn't know what she wants, but at the same time neither do I.

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Help with my marriage?
How do I leave my marriage?  My wife and I have been together for 13 years and married for 11 years. We have two boys ages 8 and 4 who mean the world to me. The last few years have been a struggle for me as my income has been dramatically reduced and because of this my wife has turned to credit cards to help make ends meet. The debt has grown to such a point now that it's unbearable and we cannot keep up. With the pressure of outspending our income she has gone to work taking nightshifts to help control the debt but it's not working. The debt continues to grow even though I have begun to make more money and it has created a divide between us. With her nights and my days we are only home 2-3 nights a week. I can go days without seeing her. In addition, the tight work schedule has impacted our social life to the point we no longer go out or attend events with other couples. We have not been on a vacation in years. All of this has led me to question wether I want to continue in this marriage any longer. I should mention our sex life is very lacking; going 2-3 months before we have sex to our latest stretch of a couple of months. I'm just so tired of all of it. She is a nice woman. Very attractive and I feel she loves me but I don't lover her back. Not the same way. I respect her for giving me two beautiful boys but I'm no longer attracted to her. I'm just so tired. I've always worried about every one else's feeling and have put myself last but I cannot do it anymore. I worry about what my actions would do to my boys. The last thing I want to do is hurt them. But I feel like I am at the end of my rope. I feel alone. 

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Direct train journey from Frankfurt to Bilbao - is it possible?
hi all! Is it possible get by train directly from Frankfurt to Bilbao, no switching trains, a separate compartment for one family? I am trying to plan 2012 summer vacation for me and family (2 adults plus 2 small kids), one week in Germany with friends, three weeks in Spain, and European railways' websites are driving me mad. And we hate going by air with the juniors. Thanks a lot!

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How Black and Hispanic cops react when they suffer police harrasment when they are off duty?
A Black or Hispanic citizen sitting on a bench in a public park, or just standing on the street has good chances to lure the cops and get a "stop and frisk" job on them. Every day thousands of stop and frisk jobs are done all over the USA. ( more than 90 per cent of the time cops dont find anything at all in the "suspect") So I wonder, Black or Hispanic cops wearing plain clothes, during their day-off, or vacations, how do they handle this? Do they react in a different way than their same colored, non police fellow citizens? Lacey, this is the police section of yahoo answers... perhaps there's any chance that real cops (of any race) hang around? Duhh.

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vacation response not working?
I can enter a message in the vacation response and it will send me a sample, but when someone sends me an email,they don't get my vacation response.

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